(Social media) relationships

Recently I got an offer from a man on social media. He wants to get to know me and have occasional non-binding encounters. First when I read messages like that, my mind goes "am I on a meeting app? Did I post I want something like that?" and then I try to see it with my heart and be grateful. For their exposure, honesty... But...the more I connect to myself, the more I feel I want to connect with others. Friends, family, partner. I am no go for something not deep and just for 2 bodies doing intimate exercises together. Also, I would like men to understand something. I know that men and women function and think different. But if man wants woman to really enjoy in intimacy with him, he must understand that woman must feel SAFE with him. She must TRUST him. And trust is not something we can give to each other. Trust must be build. It is build with time, with experiences with each other. For me it means that if a man sees me messy, chaotic and in days when even I can not trust myself and be gentle to myself, he is there with me. Present. Not wanting to go away but stays with me. With my messiness. Not making me fell wrong or crazy. Not making me feel too much or not good enough. So, do I go for occasional non-binding encounters? No. Because I think trust can not be build in such a short time. And because I want to share with a person much much more than just my precious body. This is for the men that would like to understand women more (how we can enjoy more) and how most of us work.